"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Body Type, lets hear it!

Body type preferred

  • Really skinny- minimal hips/flat chest

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • Curvy- average hips and bust

    Votes: 13 65.0%
  • Real curvy- big butt and breasts

    Votes: 2 10.0%

  • Total voters
    20

Thatfeel21

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Wondering what the preferred body types of women are and why.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CaliMan007

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I love girls with hips and curves and some meat on them. Skinny girls have never been my thing. Fat girls, well, enough said.

The main thing that does it for me is the hip to waist ratio, which I think is indicative of child bearing ability. The hour glass figure is what I need!
 

Colossus

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Yeah you need more categories. Might I suggest:

Super skinny. Think model skinny. Breastless, with long limbs and knobby joints.

Thin. In shape with minimal boobs, but not gross-skinny. Huggable.

Average. Some fluff around the waist and thighs, B-C cup boobs. Nice all-around female.

Fit. Athletic but not quite "competitor" fit, like Fugly's ladies ;)

Thick. Not "fat" per se, but thick waist and some thunder thighs. May have huge or medium boobs.

Voluptuous. Kinda fat but with such round hips and voluminous boobs it doesnt matter. Often black or Latina.

Chubby. 'Nuff said.

Walrus. AKA morbidly obese.



Personally I like thin or fit (not extreme fit). I dont really care about boobs, just a shapely ass and great legs. Between 110 and 125 lbs.
 

like2jam

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Between the first two, but you really need more categories imho.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WoodB

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I like them on the lean side. Then again, I will make exceptions unless she is fat.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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It's all about the boner factor.

Thick to voluptuous does it for me. As I've gotten older, I've really developed an appreciation for a woman with a big booty.

-Augustus-
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stagger Lee

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I like the classic playboy model, hourglass figure. About 5'5-5'8 36-22-36 115-120 lbs or so, under about 20% body fat. I like a flat tummy most of all, some feminine curves that are due to muscle and bone with just a little feminine body fat, but boobs aren't that important to me. An C or D cup would be a nice bonus. Good looking girls with that kind of figure are usually young, rare and on a pedestal though. Their looks alone make them nearly celebrities nowadays.
 

BMX

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All I've been attracting lately is the really short & skinny types. I'm a half inch short of 6' and heavy from all the lifting, wrestling, boxing I've done over the years.
 
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