"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
http://members.aol.com/nonverbal2/entries.htm#Entries
http://members.aol.com/katydidit/bodylang.htm
http://www.selfgrowth.com/bodyl.html
This one in particular looks interesting:
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Phipps3.html
SealTeamSix
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when you look at her:
1. She looks at you with total concentration (enlarged puple, sparkling eyes etc..).
2. Plays with her hair, cloth, accessaries ..etc..
3. Smile with teetch showing.
If I get any of these 2 while I am chatting with a girl, I consider myself I am on with her.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Dont get touchy feely with girls too soon. Actually not until your in bedroom.
If your walking just do it slow relaxed, put your shouldrs and head up, take up space.
It is easy, but make yourself feel like you are at home lying on your couch w/o a care in the world all the time. Wherever you are fel comfortable and at home.
I dont care about wehter a girl touches her hair or not, it is useless to worry about that. it is more important to handle your bodylanguage. Then every girl will touch her har when u talk to her.
Its all bout u becoming more attractive.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.