Body Language

[IDMeansNothing]

Is there any thread exisiting already that describes in detail what to look for in body language? I ran a search and came up with 754 hits.

If not, can we start one here? There have been several mentions of it recently and I thought it might be a good idea to post some of the positive things to look for, under what conditions and what they mean. For example, there was a post in which upturned wrists were mentioned, but what exactly is the meaning behind this, other than "Her IL is high"?

 

[bugsquish]

I think upturned wrists is a bit of a red herring, along with dilated pupils (light conditions anyone?).

Look for eye contact, and smiling. Simple but true. How enthusiastic she is about the conversation is a good pointer. Is her body facing towards you? Is she moving closer to speak? These are the only things I look for and combined make it pretty clear (along with the subject matter of course). Trying to consider too many factors at once is confusing and will affect your conversational ability.

 

[ozzfest]

i have never seen a woman turn her wrists towards me..i don't even know what that is...i agree looking for that and dialted pupils is just ludicrous. I would say look for eye contact, actual contact (her touching you) and constant primping of her hair.

 

[vdk]

I asked a UG '5' in class a question about our discussions. She immmediately thought it was a comeon and turned to face me, with enthusiastic eyes. These are the signals she gave me: Excessive eye contact, constant agreement and nodding of head to most of your opinions, flicking of hair.

Other women compliment you and kino you as well, but in a college setting they may be attention *****s#

 

[Microphone Fiend]

here's the best thread I've seen. It's a compilation of ideas from various people. I posetd some stuff I got from a helpful site, it is pretty in-depth and long so take it all in

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31859