"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Body Language

TheMonkeyKing

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Have been closely observing people in public recently, not only hot chicks but also couples.

-Is it the case that if a chick looks at you and then looks down as she passes you, she is essentially 'submitting' to an approach?

-I have also been watching a few beta-boyfriends, clinging on to their girls for dear life as they walk along the road or sit on the train, physically reassuring (mainly) themselves that they have the girl (for now). Oftentimes the girl seems to literally be tying to get out of the guy's clutches, or at least has a look of great distain/boredom on her face.

-Also find it funny when the guy obviously feels threatened by me or another guy in the vicinity and 'jumps' to mate-guard his bird.


If I'm walking with a chick, I mostly go for a casual forearm resting on her opposite shoulder or a loose hand-hold. I am quite happy to walk with no physical contact at all. In fact when I do this, I find they usually come closer to me for the physical reassurance.

Very interested in other's observations and experience of this kind of advanced kino.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maximummax

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have you read this book
body language project - its a good book related to dating.
 

VladPatton

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Yeah, I've noticed it. But it is so fun intimidating chumpy dudes with cute girlfriends lol. All you do is stand there and they feel the need to protect her. It's interesting tho, how some body language gestures are on the money, and some don't add up. Not an exact science.
 
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