"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Body Language

TheMonkeyKing

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Have been closely observing people in public recently, not only hot chicks but also couples.

-Is it the case that if a chick looks at you and then looks down as she passes you, she is essentially 'submitting' to an approach?

-I have also been watching a few beta-boyfriends, clinging on to their girls for dear life as they walk along the road or sit on the train, physically reassuring (mainly) themselves that they have the girl (for now). Oftentimes the girl seems to literally be tying to get out of the guy's clutches, or at least has a look of great distain/boredom on her face.

-Also find it funny when the guy obviously feels threatened by me or another guy in the vicinity and 'jumps' to mate-guard his bird.


If I'm walking with a chick, I mostly go for a casual forearm resting on her opposite shoulder or a loose hand-hold. I am quite happy to walk with no physical contact at all. In fact when I do this, I find they usually come closer to me for the physical reassurance.

Very interested in other's observations and experience of this kind of advanced kino.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maximummax

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have you read this book
body language project - its a good book related to dating.
 

VladPatton

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Yeah, I've noticed it. But it is so fun intimidating chumpy dudes with cute girlfriends lol. All you do is stand there and they feel the need to protect her. It's interesting tho, how some body language gestures are on the money, and some don't add up. Not an exact science.
 
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