"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jocca

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Hey guys was just wondering if anyone has any good tips on body language or has any good books to get on the subject. Its been one of my sticking points for a while and I only know the basics (shoulders back, slower more fluid movements and so on).

Apologies if this has been asked before but I had a quick skim over the site and couldnt find anything absolute. Help much appreciated
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mavrick

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I have a tip. Don't give a f'k what she looks like. She knows she attracts guys by her looks, but if you really don't care what she looks like and are more interested in the person she is, you'll find yourself acting in less of supplicating manner. Don't put any emphasis on a woman's looks and you will follow through with the proper body language. That's all that a woman has to disarm a man, and if you take that away from her, your value goes up.
 

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true I do find I change the way I hold myself at times around the more attractive women. Must work on that a fair bit more. Thanks for the replies so far if theres any more keep em commin.
 

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Open body language is more attractive i.e. legs spread wide and arms unfolded.

Defensive body language is when people cross their arms, legs etc. This is not attractive.

Hold you head up and always make eye contact and smile.

There just a few examples and sometimes it's not 100% accurate but a good guide.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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