"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys was just wondering if anyone has any good tips on body language or has any good books to get on the subject. Its been one of my sticking points for a while and I only know the basics (shoulders back, slower more fluid movements and so on).

Apologies if this has been asked before but I had a quick skim over the site and couldnt find anything absolute. Help much appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a tip. Don't give a f'k what she looks like. She knows she attracts guys by her looks, but if you really don't care what she looks like and are more interested in the person she is, you'll find yourself acting in less of supplicating manner. Don't put any emphasis on a woman's looks and you will follow through with the proper body language. That's all that a woman has to disarm a man, and if you take that away from her, your value goes up.
 
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true I do find I change the way I hold myself at times around the more attractive women. Must work on that a fair bit more. Thanks for the replies so far if theres any more keep em commin.
 
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Open body language is more attractive i.e. legs spread wide and arms unfolded.

Defensive body language is when people cross their arms, legs etc. This is not attractive.

Hold you head up and always make eye contact and smile.

There just a few examples and sometimes it's not 100% accurate but a good guide.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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