"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jocca

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Hey guys was just wondering if anyone has any good tips on body language or has any good books to get on the subject. Its been one of my sticking points for a while and I only know the basics (shoulders back, slower more fluid movements and so on).

Apologies if this has been asked before but I had a quick skim over the site and couldnt find anything absolute. Help much appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mavrick

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I have a tip. Don't give a f'k what she looks like. She knows she attracts guys by her looks, but if you really don't care what she looks like and are more interested in the person she is, you'll find yourself acting in less of supplicating manner. Don't put any emphasis on a woman's looks and you will follow through with the proper body language. That's all that a woman has to disarm a man, and if you take that away from her, your value goes up.
 

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true I do find I change the way I hold myself at times around the more attractive women. Must work on that a fair bit more. Thanks for the replies so far if theres any more keep em commin.
 

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Open body language is more attractive i.e. legs spread wide and arms unfolded.

Defensive body language is when people cross their arms, legs etc. This is not attractive.

Hold you head up and always make eye contact and smile.

There just a few examples and sometimes it's not 100% accurate but a good guide.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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