SeymourCake
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Ever saw a woman who looked at you in your eyes and then they tuck both of their lips (upper lip and lower lip) in their mouths?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Body language wise, what does this mean when a woman does this?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I was chilling my car with my girl friend , I was passenger, girlfriend was driver, her best friend was in the back seat. I turned around to say something to her best friend and saw her bite her bottom lip and her eyes get all big when I was talking to her. Didnt' pursue obviously, but you can get that vibe when it happends.
oneboy21
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Don't come into conclusion from one BL signal, try to read few than you can come into conclusion.
greatgatsby
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happens to me all the time... curious to know what this means as well. funny thing is, i've even noticed dudes do from time to time as well. anyone have any insight on this?
good question seymour!
good question seymour!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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