SeymourCake
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Ever saw a woman who looked at you in your eyes and then they tuck both of their lips (upper lip and lower lip) in their mouths?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Body language wise, what does this mean when a woman does this?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I was chilling my car with my girl friend , I was passenger, girlfriend was driver, her best friend was in the back seat. I turned around to say something to her best friend and saw her bite her bottom lip and her eyes get all big when I was talking to her. Didnt' pursue obviously, but you can get that vibe when it happends.
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Don't come into conclusion from one BL signal, try to read few than you can come into conclusion.
greatgatsby
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happens to me all the time... curious to know what this means as well. funny thing is, i've even noticed dudes do from time to time as well. anyone have any insight on this?
good question seymour!
good question seymour!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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