SeymourCake
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Ever saw a woman who looked at you in your eyes and then they tuck both of their lips (upper lip and lower lip) in their mouths?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Body language wise, what does this mean when a woman does this?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was chilling my car with my girl friend , I was passenger, girlfriend was driver, her best friend was in the back seat. I turned around to say something to her best friend and saw her bite her bottom lip and her eyes get all big when I was talking to her. Didnt' pursue obviously, but you can get that vibe when it happends.
oneboy21
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Don't come into conclusion from one BL signal, try to read few than you can come into conclusion.
greatgatsby
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happens to me all the time... curious to know what this means as well. funny thing is, i've even noticed dudes do from time to time as well. anyone have any insight on this?
good question seymour!
good question seymour!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
greatgatsby
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