"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women often form a lot of opinions and assumptions about men even before they speak. They know what kind of a man you are simply based on observing your body language. Therefore, any demonstrations of weak, insecure, and inferior body language will likely diminish your chances.

When walking
Walk slow, but take wider steps.
Look straight ahead and above the horizon.
Do not put hands in pocket.

When talking
Talk slow and deliberate, voice tone should be firm.
Variations in voice tone to emphasize important words.

When sitting
Take up a lot of space
Spread your legs, or stretch them over a chair or table.
Lean back

When standing
Feet should be apart, not too close together, stand wider.
If there’s a wall, lean back.

Eyes movement
Do not blink so often.
Limit drastic movements, like looking to the left and right.

Most importantly, your mindset should be congruent with your BL. Feeling upbeat, positive, happy, superior etc..are important so that the effects of your BL can be magnified.

Most of us know about smiles already, but anything else you want to add, feel free.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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im not saying that this is right or wrong, infact it seems fairly correct, but thats my oppinion, what do i know? so what gives you the idea that this is the correct way to act?
 

HuuBinh

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
im not saying that this is right or wrong, infact it seems fairly correct, but thats my oppinion, what do i know? so what gives you the idea that this is the correct way to act?
This is actually how I behave. I have gotton more looks from women eventhough I am not a very tall, handsome or built guy and they seem to be very receptive to me.

I cannot say it's right or wrong either, I can only write from what I have experienced.
 

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what if she say "you look really comfortable." while you sittingdown. It seems like she's saying you have good body language, what do you guys think?

and how do you respond to that with something ****y and funny?

The only thing i said was "ya, this is pretty damn comfortable (with a slight smile)"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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