"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Body Language -- The Sigh

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I think I understand certain body language but the one Im perplexed on is when a woman sighs.

I'll be sitting there with her cuddled up with me on the couch and I'll notice her take a deep breath and sigh. I've never had any other woman do that. She also does it sometimes when we hug. Im assuming its a good sigh. :confused: Is there such a good thing as a good sigh? I don't notice her doing it unless there is some physical contact.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trust me man, its a good sigh:cheer:

my old girlfriend used to sigh just like that whenever we were cuddled up. it probably means she feels safe and secure when she's in your arms.
 
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Originally posted by the12thplanet
trust me man, its a good sigh:cheer:

my old girlfriend used to sigh just like that whenever we were cuddled up. it probably means she feels safe and secure when she's in your arms.
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Thats cool. Kinda what I figured. She does it quite a bit. She will sigh several times when we are in close physical contact. Thanks for the input!
 
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It's a good thing

An X of mine would sigh several times when we hugged, cuddled ECT...
We real close friends now and she told me that she only sighs when she she feels in love, safe or secured

just like what "The12thplanet" stated

Don't worry about it too much :D
 
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It's the opposite at my house, my house mate sighs a lot and a friend of hers that was staying for a few days told me it was because she wasn't getting enough attention...I think humming is along the same lines as well.:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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^^^^^^^^^

its pretty easy to tell the difference between a contented sigh and a frustrated sigh. we were talking about what it means when she sighs when cuddled up or in close contact.
 
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