"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Body Language -- The Sigh

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I think I understand certain body language but the one Im perplexed on is when a woman sighs.

I'll be sitting there with her cuddled up with me on the couch and I'll notice her take a deep breath and sigh. I've never had any other woman do that. She also does it sometimes when we hug. Im assuming its a good sigh. :confused: Is there such a good thing as a good sigh? I don't notice her doing it unless there is some physical contact.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the12thplanet

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trust me man, its a good sigh:cheer:

my old girlfriend used to sigh just like that whenever we were cuddled up. it probably means she feels safe and secure when she's in your arms.
 

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Originally posted by the12thplanet
trust me man, its a good sigh:cheer:

my old girlfriend used to sigh just like that whenever we were cuddled up. it probably means she feels safe and secure when she's in your arms.
Thats cool. Kinda what I figured. She does it quite a bit. She will sigh several times when we are in close physical contact. Thanks for the input!
 

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It's a good thing

An X of mine would sigh several times when we hugged, cuddled ECT...
We real close friends now and she told me that she only sighs when she she feels in love, safe or secured

just like what "The12thplanet" stated

Don't worry about it too much :D
 

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It's the opposite at my house, my house mate sighs a lot and a friend of hers that was staying for a few days told me it was because she wasn't getting enough attention...I think humming is along the same lines as well.:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the12thplanet

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^^^^^^^^^

its pretty easy to tell the difference between a contented sigh and a frustrated sigh. we were talking about what it means when she sighs when cuddled up or in close contact.
 
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