Body language refresher course..

[Georgepithyou]

Body language is super important, you act timid and shy

Peoplw will see you that way

When you see a confident person, its because of their body language.

Please nobody listen to the user claiming everyone has a unique body language

 

[metalwater]

Women hanging out here are already cracked bro. And wonder what their men would think if they knew.
Ofcourse they don't know nor would they tell them.

everyone self-included has some issue; to find and then invest any time in this site. I would smile if that girl was to submit and be happy with some dude. even if she is wrong or just has the opinion of a girl (still wrong) she tries or at least fakes it pretty well on this site. I guess this site is pretty tame compared to the usual chick speak amongst themselves.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

everyone self-included has some issue; to find and then invest any time in this site. I would smile if that girl was to submit and be happy with some dude. even if she is wrong or just has the opinion of a girl (still wrong) she tries or at least fakes it pretty well on this site. I guess this site is pretty tame compared to the usual chick speak amongst themselves.

I feel like I've missed out on all the chic speak guys assume women do with each other.

Not once in any locker room did I hear women talk about guys.
I don't work with women and I don't speak about men to female acquaintances. So where does this chic speak happen?

 

[metalwater]

I feel like I've missed out on all the chic speak guys assume women do with each other.

Not once in any locker room did I hear women talk about guys.
I don't work with women and I don't speak about men to female acquaintances. So where does this chic speak happen?

it happens in women to women within social circles. the group or groups of girls that are available for the eh... alpha guys of the group all talk about it. usually with indirect speech, sometimes directly. you have presented yourself as an outsider to that; and asking this question would support that claim.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

it happens in women to women within social circles. the group or groups of girls that are available for the eh... alpha guys of the group all talk about it. usually with indirect speech, sometimes directly. you have presented yourself as an outsider to that; and asking this question would support that claim.

Cosmo-reading cvm dumpsters has never been a female archetype I "look up to" for deep, secret knowledge on men.

Kind of too glaring a juxtaposition. What value could I emulate from them?

Think that's wise?
BeExcellent is just feeling happy she met someone she's mutually sexually attracted to.
She posted in this thread because she feels its her body language that successfully sent the IOI to this guy to approach.
I think that's how it happened? @BeExcellent ?

 

[BeExcellent]

Way too much attention on me (eye roll). None of the barbs here affect me in real life. I contribute here just as others do. Like me or not I’m just one voice.

My experience in the real world in a city known for beautiful people tells me I’m still plenty marketable to exactly the kind of man I desire.

Winning.

@cola is correct. How you carry yourself speaks volumes before you ever open your mouth. Set the non verbal ques up in your favor & it will make a big difference in how the world perceives you and responds to you.

Cannot be over emphasized.

Cheers

 

[BeExcellent]

Women hanging out here are already cracked bro. And wonder what their men would think if they knew.
Ofcourse they don't know nor would they tell them.

My guy knows I’m here. He thinks it’s cool.

 

[TonyTenner]

Because I am accustomed to business travel all the time I go out to dinner alone constantly and have done for many years. I always hold my head up, back straight, shoulders back/open and I have a slow but deliberate sashay where my hips and arms swing naturally. But I also keep the attitude in my mind that any where I go...I OWN it.

I own who I am, how I look and how I interact with the world. I’m open and inquisitive with people, smile and laugh easily and enjoy good conversation.

People are drawn to me by no small measure because of my body posture and radiant attitude. It’s more that than my looks I believe...and my looks are good on their own merits.

Confidence is everything. You exude confidence in your posture as well as your attitude and you’ll always have doors open and a place at the table for you.

I’ve started dating someone recently. When I met him I had on zero make up and was in a t-shirt & jeans. While he thought I was very pretty & liked my figure...what prompted him to ask me for my number AND ask me out all at once was my confidence and self assured vibe...and a little sass too, not gonna lie.

He is totally secure in himself and in his own skin. Rock solid. Exudes confidence and IDGAF. But he’s also attentive and kind. Sexy AF. Just sayin’

Have you always naturally had this positive body posture and attitude, or did you work on it?

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

So why are women even allowed to post here?

 

[Lynx nkaf]

So why are women even allowed to post here?

I think there are a few pretending to be men(lying).

Would you prefer deceit?


On the other side of the coin, I don't know that there's any men pretending to be women.....or is there? lol

 

[TonyTenner]

Women report a rise in 'aggressive eye contact' since masks

Women have been reporting a rise in 'aggressive eye contact' and intimidating behaviour from men since the introduction of mandatory face coverings in some public places in England.

www.dailymail.co.uk

This **** is getting nuts

The men they want staring they are not complaining about. The ones they don't are being using as leverage for attention on social media.

Even masks now being used as means to gain attention.

 

[Lookatu]

All good observations above.

I'd like to add in addition, see how and where women walk to determine potential pickup candidates.

For example, do they wait for the walk sign to appear, or do they just look both ways and cross the street based on their common sense? Just this act can be telling of other things. (it can possibly signal that she can be an independent thinker and not follow the herd always)

Does she walk over the metal grate(vertical tunnel dropping 10-20ft to sewer or access tunnel) on the sidewalk or does she walk around it? (Signals her risk tolerance possibly)

Does her feet stick outward when she walks? (I find a lot of out of shape people walk like this)

Does she wear a short dress when it's freezing and snowing? (signals attention *****)

 

[BeExcellent]

Have you always naturally had this positive body posture and attitude, or did you work on it?

Good posture and standing up straight was part of my upbringing. Poise was emphasized in my home as a girl and young lady. In my university years I had my first boyfriend, first real relationship and got my heart broken at 21 after a 2 year period dating a player...it wrecked me but coming out of that experience I learned to comport myself with confidence and I learned how to really like & love myself independent of what anybody else thought.

So the aftermath of that first relationship taught me a tremendous amount about self reliance and taught me to be comfortable in my own skin and my own company. Tough but great life lessons.

As far as serving a man @stringpuller I am a giver by nature and enjoy serving and doing for my man. This must be balanced by his investment in the relationship as evidenced by his actions however or I risk being taken advantage of. This past weekend my guy made me breakfast both mornings for example and it pleased him to do that for me. I told him it felt a little strange to sit and let him do for me...I usually am the one doing or serving or tending to the man. And I have for him in various ways too...I felt appreciated and valued in his doing for me...and in turn I appreciate and value him.

Intimacy is a dance between two people...not a one way street. It’s important to remember that.

 

[Lookatu]

I found good posture earns 1-2" in height. Half my coworkers thought I was the same height or taller than them since they are always slouching.