I've been doing a lot of reading and this is my first post. As a guy, that can naturally talk to women, I have been coming to find that meeting women on the internet is harder than I thought. I think my main problem is the fact that I don't smile in my profile pictures. I tend not to smile, because I don't think I look attractive when I do it. I do however try to communicate through eye contact and other forms of body language other than smiling. I try to smile and I actually feel awkward doing it. I'm a happy person, just don't like smiling all that much. Does anyone see this being a problem in the attraction department?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Body Language Question
- Thread starter the_m@n
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
