I've been doing a lot of reading and this is my first post. As a guy, that can naturally talk to women, I have been coming to find that meeting women on the internet is harder than I thought. I think my main problem is the fact that I don't smile in my profile pictures. I tend not to smile, because I don't think I look attractive when I do it. I do however try to communicate through eye contact and other forms of body language other than smiling. I try to smile and I actually feel awkward doing it. I'm a happy person, just don't like smiling all that much. Does anyone see this being a problem in the attraction department?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Body Language Question
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
