I've been doing a lot of reading and this is my first post. As a guy, that can naturally talk to women, I have been coming to find that meeting women on the internet is harder than I thought. I think my main problem is the fact that I don't smile in my profile pictures. I tend not to smile, because I don't think I look attractive when I do it. I do however try to communicate through eye contact and other forms of body language other than smiling. I try to smile and I actually feel awkward doing it. I'm a happy person, just don't like smiling all that much. Does anyone see this being a problem in the attraction department?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Body Language Question
- Thread starter the_m@n
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
