Sal Ceech
Don Juan
Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Body Language question ...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's not an indicator of any kind. Perhaps dry skin.Sal Ceech said:Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
I consider myself to be very good at reading body language and I have no idea what that means. In combination with other factors maybe I could figure it out, probably I would need to see it.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh god. Listen. You want the best indicator of interest via body langauge? Invade her space, or watch her invade yours. The rest is reading tea leaves. People who aren't interested in each other don't want to be in each others air space, know what I mean? That's your indicator of interest.
Sal Ceech
Don Juan
I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Dont forget gut instinct. Sometimes you just know when a girl digs you. And the proximity test? Thats also a pretty good indicator. A girl who used to work in my office and who I suspected liked me got to within 3 inches of me almost shoulder to shoulder and just stood there giving me the doggie bowl look. I later found out she had a massive crush on me.Sal Ceech said:I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Ceech,
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.