Sal Ceech
Don Juan
Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Body Language question ...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's not an indicator of any kind. Perhaps dry skin.Sal Ceech said:Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
I consider myself to be very good at reading body language and I have no idea what that means. In combination with other factors maybe I could figure it out, probably I would need to see it.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Oh god. Listen. You want the best indicator of interest via body langauge? Invade her space, or watch her invade yours. The rest is reading tea leaves. People who aren't interested in each other don't want to be in each others air space, know what I mean? That's your indicator of interest.
Sal Ceech
Don Juan
I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Dont forget gut instinct. Sometimes you just know when a girl digs you. And the proximity test? Thats also a pretty good indicator. A girl who used to work in my office and who I suspected liked me got to within 3 inches of me almost shoulder to shoulder and just stood there giving me the doggie bowl look. I later found out she had a massive crush on me.Sal Ceech said:I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Ceech,
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.