Sal Ceech
Don Juan
Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Body Language question ...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's not an indicator of any kind. Perhaps dry skin.Sal Ceech said:Ok a question for the bro,s ... when a woman scratches herself on the legs or arms as she is conversing with you, any idea what that is ??? is she into you ..or nervous ..thanks in advance![/B][/B]
I consider myself to be very good at reading body language and I have no idea what that means. In combination with other factors maybe I could figure it out, probably I would need to see it.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
If you've just met her and she's still standing there talking to you and not looking like she's trying to find an escape route that should be good enough for you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oh god. Listen. You want the best indicator of interest via body langauge? Invade her space, or watch her invade yours. The rest is reading tea leaves. People who aren't interested in each other don't want to be in each others air space, know what I mean? That's your indicator of interest.
Sal Ceech
Don Juan
I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Dont forget gut instinct. Sometimes you just know when a girl digs you. And the proximity test? Thats also a pretty good indicator. A girl who used to work in my office and who I suspected liked me got to within 3 inches of me almost shoulder to shoulder and just stood there giving me the doggie bowl look. I later found out she had a massive crush on me.Sal Ceech said:I thank you for the responses.Gaspipe ,I was looking if it was along the lines of touching hair lol ...Warrior ,thank you ...I understand the boundary is 18 inches ... minimum.Tea Leaves ??? ROFL ..more like trying to get a whiff of the coffee ..
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Ceech,
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.
She is just anxious,get her relaxed,she will be fine.