"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Body Language Project - Free Dictionary

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Intersting stuff, as long as any newbies know not to overdo or overanalyze any of it.

For the newbies here: the only thing you want to focus on too much is making sure your own body language isnt signalling betaness, or closed off, or negativity. Dont sit there trying to analyze some chicks body language, any more than noticing whether she's very open to you, or closed off, and if she's closed off, just lighten the mood a little. Dont let it affect the interaction!

Its insteresting to know some of this stuff, but you cant get too caught up in it.


BTW, links to B and C are not working.
 
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horaholic said:
Intersting stuff, as long as any newbies know not to overdo or overanalyze any of it.

For the newbies here: the only thing you want to focus on too much is making sure your own body language isnt signalling betaness, or closed off, or negativity. Dont sit there trying to analyze some chicks body language, any more than noticing whether she's very open to you, or closed off, and if she's closed off, just lighten the mood a little. Dont let it affect the interaction!

Its insteresting to know some of this stuff, but you cant get too caught up in it.


BTW, links to B and C are not working.
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Yup, totally correct. For the average PUA, a lot of it is way overdoing things. Doesn't hurt to know the stuff to work your way through life though. Comes in very handy.

Fixed the links to B and C, hopefully. Thanks for the heads up!
 
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Dont get me wrong. Its great to know about it, just not to focus on.
 
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