"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Body Language Project - Free Dictionary

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Intersting stuff, as long as any newbies know not to overdo or overanalyze any of it.

For the newbies here: the only thing you want to focus on too much is making sure your own body language isnt signalling betaness, or closed off, or negativity. Dont sit there trying to analyze some chicks body language, any more than noticing whether she's very open to you, or closed off, and if she's closed off, just lighten the mood a little. Dont let it affect the interaction!

Its insteresting to know some of this stuff, but you cant get too caught up in it.


BTW, links to B and C are not working.
 
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horaholic said:
Intersting stuff, as long as any newbies know not to overdo or overanalyze any of it.

For the newbies here: the only thing you want to focus on too much is making sure your own body language isnt signalling betaness, or closed off, or negativity. Dont sit there trying to analyze some chicks body language, any more than noticing whether she's very open to you, or closed off, and if she's closed off, just lighten the mood a little. Dont let it affect the interaction!

Its insteresting to know some of this stuff, but you cant get too caught up in it.


BTW, links to B and C are not working.
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Yup, totally correct. For the average PUA, a lot of it is way overdoing things. Doesn't hurt to know the stuff to work your way through life though. Comes in very handy.

Fixed the links to B and C, hopefully. Thanks for the heads up!
 
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Dont get me wrong. Its great to know about it, just not to focus on.
 
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