"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Body Language issues

Konada

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Well I have to say I've come a long way ever since I discovered this site, pretty much turned me from a follower to one who proactively leads and takes charge of his life. I would say that I have alot of self confidence now and don't give a fck about how people think of me (I love haters because it proves I'm doing something right).

However my body language seems to be stuck in beta-mode. I've been observing myself for the past couple of months and I found myself to be hunching most of the time. It's gotten better ever since I started working out but it's still significantly noticeable. My question here is that how can I seek to solve this problem, I've been keeping mind of walking with chest out but the hunch is always there. How can I remedy this??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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Obviously you should try to keep a good body posture all day but what could give you the right kick is hit the gym and train with patience and care your back muscles.

Hyperextension, pull-ups,barbell row and when you will be more in shape you will include dead lifts as well.

Dont neglect also the rear part of your shoulder which you can train with face pull.

Needless to say also other belt muscles have a role but you probably already know how to train them.
 

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Konada said:
However my body language seems to be stuck in beta-mode. I've been observing myself for the past couple of months and I found myself to be hunching most of the time. It's gotten better ever since I started working out but it's still significantly noticeable. My question here is that how can I seek to solve this problem, I've been keeping mind of walking with chest out but the hunch is always there. How can I remedy this??
yoga and full body work out, it`s sitting too much in front of the computer
 
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