"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Body Language issues

Konada

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Well I have to say I've come a long way ever since I discovered this site, pretty much turned me from a follower to one who proactively leads and takes charge of his life. I would say that I have alot of self confidence now and don't give a fck about how people think of me (I love haters because it proves I'm doing something right).

However my body language seems to be stuck in beta-mode. I've been observing myself for the past couple of months and I found myself to be hunching most of the time. It's gotten better ever since I started working out but it's still significantly noticeable. My question here is that how can I seek to solve this problem, I've been keeping mind of walking with chest out but the hunch is always there. How can I remedy this??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Obviously you should try to keep a good body posture all day but what could give you the right kick is hit the gym and train with patience and care your back muscles.

Hyperextension, pull-ups,barbell row and when you will be more in shape you will include dead lifts as well.

Dont neglect also the rear part of your shoulder which you can train with face pull.

Needless to say also other belt muscles have a role but you probably already know how to train them.
 

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Konada said:
However my body language seems to be stuck in beta-mode. I've been observing myself for the past couple of months and I found myself to be hunching most of the time. It's gotten better ever since I started working out but it's still significantly noticeable. My question here is that how can I seek to solve this problem, I've been keeping mind of walking with chest out but the hunch is always there. How can I remedy this??
yoga and full body work out, it`s sitting too much in front of the computer
 
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