"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body language is a physical attractiveness trait

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Body language is as important as the shape of your nose.

The way you walk, the way you sit, the way you put on your jacket and the way you touch other people directly effects your rating out of 10.

A woman will not be able to tell you this, however it will effect her physical perception and reception of you directly. You will never hear a woman say 'the way he sits' is something that effects how attractive she finds him, but we all know women know absolutley nothing about what they want.

So looks matter? Chances are if you look bad, then you sit bad. You sit bad because you think you look bad. The way you sit makes you ugly, and so is that ugly ass t shirt. If you were a straight up super confident alpha would you dress bad and slouch around with your hands in your pockets?

This is why you wont find an ugly guy with straight up super ALPHA body language: because he is no longer an UGLY GUY.

Get a haircut, shave the hair off if your bald, grow a beard, dress right, walk right.

Yes looks matter: 'ugly' guys wont get the girls. This doesnt have anything to do with the size of your nose though.

How to get good body language? Watch alpha role models. Never hide your hands. Never let your arms cross your body, keep it open. When you sit open your body, dont cover yourself in defence. Could go into this in big detail, but watching movies of alphas will be better.

Disclaimer: does not work if you have severe facial disfiguration.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Body language is communication. It can tell people alot about you. If you're confident etc and this is what women are attracted to. Look at all the famous actors and watch how they move when they're not acting. You'll see really confident, positive body language.Then compare that with somebody who has low self esteem.
 
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