"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Body language is a physical attractiveness trait

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Body language is as important as the shape of your nose.

The way you walk, the way you sit, the way you put on your jacket and the way you touch other people directly effects your rating out of 10.

A woman will not be able to tell you this, however it will effect her physical perception and reception of you directly. You will never hear a woman say 'the way he sits' is something that effects how attractive she finds him, but we all know women know absolutley nothing about what they want.

So looks matter? Chances are if you look bad, then you sit bad. You sit bad because you think you look bad. The way you sit makes you ugly, and so is that ugly ass t shirt. If you were a straight up super confident alpha would you dress bad and slouch around with your hands in your pockets?

This is why you wont find an ugly guy with straight up super ALPHA body language: because he is no longer an UGLY GUY.

Get a haircut, shave the hair off if your bald, grow a beard, dress right, walk right.

Yes looks matter: 'ugly' guys wont get the girls. This doesnt have anything to do with the size of your nose though.

How to get good body language? Watch alpha role models. Never hide your hands. Never let your arms cross your body, keep it open. When you sit open your body, dont cover yourself in defence. Could go into this in big detail, but watching movies of alphas will be better.

Disclaimer: does not work if you have severe facial disfiguration.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Body language is communication. It can tell people alot about you. If you're confident etc and this is what women are attracted to. Look at all the famous actors and watch how they move when they're not acting. You'll see really confident, positive body language.Then compare that with somebody who has low self esteem.
 
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