"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even at times when I'm at my best with the most beautiful women in the group I can't help but feel self-concious about my body hair.
I have it everywhere but my back and upper arms. is there a way to trim it or thin it out somehow in a safe way without shaving it because i live in the south it's not as easy to get away with shaving body hair and i also dont want it to grow back thicker after shaving?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you have no back hair then it's all good. But you're 19....I didn't get back hair till I was 22 or so. :)

Just get a beard trimmer and put it on the first or second closest setting, and trim away. That way you won't look like a bear, and without having to actually shave. Shaving leads to a whole host of problems, like razor bumps, in-grown hairs which can turn into zits, and dealing with stubble all over your body.
 
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thanks i was wondering if a trimmer would work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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