"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Even at times when I'm at my best with the most beautiful women in the group I can't help but feel self-concious about my body hair.
I have it everywhere but my back and upper arms. is there a way to trim it or thin it out somehow in a safe way without shaving it because i live in the south it's not as easy to get away with shaving body hair and i also dont want it to grow back thicker after shaving?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you have no back hair then it's all good. But you're 19....I didn't get back hair till I was 22 or so. :)

Just get a beard trimmer and put it on the first or second closest setting, and trim away. That way you won't look like a bear, and without having to actually shave. Shaving leads to a whole host of problems, like razor bumps, in-grown hairs which can turn into zits, and dealing with stubble all over your body.
 
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thanks i was wondering if a trimmer would work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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