"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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body hair: yes or no?

seethehoop

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Do you get rid of body hair our leave it?

I'm not the hairiest guy but I've got some chest hair and my stomach is a little hairy. I'm not too fussed by this but I've got a few back hairs, maybe 20 or so. I've never really thought bout getting rid but I'm getting in good shape now and thought about getting these removed.

So my question is. Do you have hair removed and if so what part of your body and by what method do you have it removed?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NobodyCares1

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I just shave my pubic area, armpits and face... I don't have much body hair only some on my stomach but I don't shave that...
 

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I have lot's of hair - arms, legs, chest, stomatch, back, ass, crotch. I just shave face, for arm pits I use a machine cut and leave 5 mm, crotch I cut using scissors. Use what your momma gave you, if you have like only 20 hairs in the back like you said (counted???) pull them out, leave chest and stomatch alone. Shaving arm pits could be irritating to skin, and shaved crutch is a clear sign of faggetry. Be careful of shaving chest and other areas of your body, hair will come back and be thiker and more lucious.
 

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I have a shaved head, as some of it is falling out, so when it comes to body hair I've kept underarm, chest, snail trail and a bit of shoulder hair. I might add that I am not very hairy either and have not got hairy limbs at all. I shave my pubes as it's only polite. You don't want a girl going down there and getting a tickly throat after getting a moulful of pubes. Plus, it looks neater and that you've made the effort. I wouldn't recommend this for very hairy men as some girls love the rugged thing, but if you've not got much, might as well go for the cropped look.
 

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Why are guys shaving their armpits? Trim perhaps, but not shave it clean!

I only trim downstairs. Wouldn't shave there either, but fully expect the woman to :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NobodyCares1

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for me trimming is a lot more work than shaving... I have it shaved in 5 minutes... triming would take a lot longer...
 

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I go gauge 1 on my ballz. Chicks have told me they like a guy to be trimmed down there but they would freak out if a guy had no pubic hair.
They definitely appreciate some trimming.
 

dbx

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NobodyCares1 said:
for me trimming is a lot more work than shaving... I have it shaved in 5 minutes... triming would take a lot longer...
Not if you use clippers
 

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dbx said:
Not if you use clippers

I would never dare use clippers in the Boll ock region!

i'm quite hairy and find hair on shoulders and back a particular pain in the ass.
So difficult to reach and generally disliked by the ladies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use 1/8" hair length as a limit. From far away it looks like you are bare, up close it looks slightly hairy. Shaving the pits is a good idea, keeps less sweat. If you don't like a certain trim, it magically grows back after a while. A short while!
 

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muscleman said:
Body Groomer

Sex feels a lot better when you're both smooth.
That is a very good point.
 

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I'll trim my arms and legs during summer when it's hot as hell, shave down my back as no chick likes back hair and it just looks terrible whenever you take your shirt off, I'll shave my armpits to stay cool and cleaner, shave my head because I'm going bald, and my balls as it does feel cooler and cleaner plus it takes away a big thing chicks don't like about going down on a guy. Hey, I can't stand pubic hair on women so I might as well return the favor, especially as I enjoy a bit of 69.

As for my face I'd only shave my neck and that's it, I like having a beard but currently my work doesn't allow for it. Chicks dig a well-kept beard as well, at least those who are in the mood for a real man.

The only thing I won't touch is my chest. Unless you're in a bodybuilding competition you have no reason to be touching that, besides despite the 70's being long over a lot of chicks still dig a nice hairy chest.

dbx said:
Why are guys shaving their armpits? Trim perhaps, but not shave it clean!
Antiperspirant can't work if it's not getting applied directly to the skin, I hardly sweat there at all anymore since I started keep them pretty bare. Any hair that gets in the way is just interfering with the application.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Got hair on my buttocks and near my arsehole. I don't know how to take away and whether it is ADVISED to take away arsehole hair.

It really eases up the process of not making your butt covered in ****, but it's annoying when you see some of hair's falling and cleaning( I'm one of those guys who clean their arse after ****ting. Hygiene freak. )
Use the Body Groomer. That's why I use it instead of a straight blade (I used to shave my balls with a normal razor but it takes too long). With the Groomer after a few times you do it blind, so you can trim your ass without looking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh crap I don't do anything but shave my face, head hair cut, shape up eye brow. Is that bad? I've never had any girls complain about not shaving my legs. A girlfriend once told me I had a perfect amount of chest hair- enough to be masculine, but not so much its gross. I think that's funny but I'm pretty crazy and don't trust people.
 

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Maeisgood said:
Oh crap I don't do anything but shave my face, head hair cut, shape up eye brow. Is that bad? I've never had any girls complain about not shaving my legs. A girlfriend once told me I had a perfect amount of chest hair- enough to be masculine, but not so much its gross. I think that's funny but I'm pretty crazy and don't trust people.
It doesn't matter that much and is more about the image you're going for, your style.

I'm very muscular/ripped/tan and like to show it off (especially vascularity), so I choose to get rid of all body hair except my head. I like to be smooth and like my girls smooth as well.

Someone going for a more "rugged outback" look may want to have body hair though, for instance.

The only universal thing that women dislike is too much hair. If you want to have body hair, that's fine, just keep it under control. If you have back hair or excessive ass hair for instance, you need to get rid of that asap. No one finds that attractive. That's like a girl with a 'stache.
 

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muscleman said:
If you have back hair or excessive ass hair for instance, you need to get rid of that asap. No one finds that attractive. That's like a girl with a 'stache.
ha ha

Ya, no having her "toss salad" when there's anything back there.
 
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