"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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body hair: yes or no?

seethehoop

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Do you get rid of body hair our leave it?

I'm not the hairiest guy but I've got some chest hair and my stomach is a little hairy. I'm not too fussed by this but I've got a few back hairs, maybe 20 or so. I've never really thought bout getting rid but I'm getting in good shape now and thought about getting these removed.

So my question is. Do you have hair removed and if so what part of your body and by what method do you have it removed?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NobodyCares1

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I just shave my pubic area, armpits and face... I don't have much body hair only some on my stomach but I don't shave that...
 

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I have lot's of hair - arms, legs, chest, stomatch, back, ass, crotch. I just shave face, for arm pits I use a machine cut and leave 5 mm, crotch I cut using scissors. Use what your momma gave you, if you have like only 20 hairs in the back like you said (counted???) pull them out, leave chest and stomatch alone. Shaving arm pits could be irritating to skin, and shaved crutch is a clear sign of faggetry. Be careful of shaving chest and other areas of your body, hair will come back and be thiker and more lucious.
 

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I have a shaved head, as some of it is falling out, so when it comes to body hair I've kept underarm, chest, snail trail and a bit of shoulder hair. I might add that I am not very hairy either and have not got hairy limbs at all. I shave my pubes as it's only polite. You don't want a girl going down there and getting a tickly throat after getting a moulful of pubes. Plus, it looks neater and that you've made the effort. I wouldn't recommend this for very hairy men as some girls love the rugged thing, but if you've not got much, might as well go for the cropped look.
 

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Why are guys shaving their armpits? Trim perhaps, but not shave it clean!

I only trim downstairs. Wouldn't shave there either, but fully expect the woman to :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NobodyCares1

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for me trimming is a lot more work than shaving... I have it shaved in 5 minutes... triming would take a lot longer...
 

Greasy Pig

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I go gauge 1 on my ballz. Chicks have told me they like a guy to be trimmed down there but they would freak out if a guy had no pubic hair.
They definitely appreciate some trimming.
 

dbx

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NobodyCares1 said:
for me trimming is a lot more work than shaving... I have it shaved in 5 minutes... triming would take a lot longer...
Not if you use clippers
 

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dbx said:
Not if you use clippers

I would never dare use clippers in the Boll ock region!

i'm quite hairy and find hair on shoulders and back a particular pain in the ass.
So difficult to reach and generally disliked by the ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Use 1/8" hair length as a limit. From far away it looks like you are bare, up close it looks slightly hairy. Shaving the pits is a good idea, keeps less sweat. If you don't like a certain trim, it magically grows back after a while. A short while!
 

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muscleman said:
Body Groomer

Sex feels a lot better when you're both smooth.
That is a very good point.
 

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I'll trim my arms and legs during summer when it's hot as hell, shave down my back as no chick likes back hair and it just looks terrible whenever you take your shirt off, I'll shave my armpits to stay cool and cleaner, shave my head because I'm going bald, and my balls as it does feel cooler and cleaner plus it takes away a big thing chicks don't like about going down on a guy. Hey, I can't stand pubic hair on women so I might as well return the favor, especially as I enjoy a bit of 69.

As for my face I'd only shave my neck and that's it, I like having a beard but currently my work doesn't allow for it. Chicks dig a well-kept beard as well, at least those who are in the mood for a real man.

The only thing I won't touch is my chest. Unless you're in a bodybuilding competition you have no reason to be touching that, besides despite the 70's being long over a lot of chicks still dig a nice hairy chest.

dbx said:
Why are guys shaving their armpits? Trim perhaps, but not shave it clean!
Antiperspirant can't work if it's not getting applied directly to the skin, I hardly sweat there at all anymore since I started keep them pretty bare. Any hair that gets in the way is just interfering with the application.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Got hair on my buttocks and near my arsehole. I don't know how to take away and whether it is ADVISED to take away arsehole hair.

It really eases up the process of not making your butt covered in ****, but it's annoying when you see some of hair's falling and cleaning( I'm one of those guys who clean their arse after ****ting. Hygiene freak. )
Use the Body Groomer. That's why I use it instead of a straight blade (I used to shave my balls with a normal razor but it takes too long). With the Groomer after a few times you do it blind, so you can trim your ass without looking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maeisgood

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Oh crap I don't do anything but shave my face, head hair cut, shape up eye brow. Is that bad? I've never had any girls complain about not shaving my legs. A girlfriend once told me I had a perfect amount of chest hair- enough to be masculine, but not so much its gross. I think that's funny but I'm pretty crazy and don't trust people.
 

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Maeisgood said:
Oh crap I don't do anything but shave my face, head hair cut, shape up eye brow. Is that bad? I've never had any girls complain about not shaving my legs. A girlfriend once told me I had a perfect amount of chest hair- enough to be masculine, but not so much its gross. I think that's funny but I'm pretty crazy and don't trust people.
It doesn't matter that much and is more about the image you're going for, your style.

I'm very muscular/ripped/tan and like to show it off (especially vascularity), so I choose to get rid of all body hair except my head. I like to be smooth and like my girls smooth as well.

Someone going for a more "rugged outback" look may want to have body hair though, for instance.

The only universal thing that women dislike is too much hair. If you want to have body hair, that's fine, just keep it under control. If you have back hair or excessive ass hair for instance, you need to get rid of that asap. No one finds that attractive. That's like a girl with a 'stache.
 

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muscleman said:
If you have back hair or excessive ass hair for instance, you need to get rid of that asap. No one finds that attractive. That's like a girl with a 'stache.
ha ha

Ya, no having her "toss salad" when there's anything back there.
 
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