"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt

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Facial hair,shave and keep it clean. The only facial hair that can fly is a goatee.

Now the body? If you are hairy like a warewolf/caveman,shave, if not your good to go.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fash

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blinkwatt said:
Facial hair,shave and keep it clean. The only facial hair that can fly is a goatee.

Now the body? If you are hairy like a warewolf/caveman,shave, if not your good to go.
I kinda disagree.

Some women really like a bit of stuble on a man. They love the rough look and the feeling of having a MAN kissing them upstairs or downstairs.

As of body hair, I have a hairy chest AND a hairy back. I dont shave but keep my body hair trimmed. I have NEVER had an issue with any women NOT liking it. They LOVE your hairy chest rubbing against their nipples and once you are banging the crap out of them, your hairy back is the last thing on their mind.

The trick is to keep your body hair under control, specially your pubic area, and either keep a clean shaven look or a very short stuble.
 

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I get a lot of compliments on my facial hair from women.

Plus people say I look 12 years old with my facial hair shaven, so I'm keeping it regardless of what women think.
 
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