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Any good threads on those topics?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Body Hair/Facial Hair
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Well this isn't one.
Use the search dude. Its there for a reason.
Use the search dude. Its there for a reason.
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You're right. You are. How nice of you to point yourself out like that. Thanks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I kinda disagree.blinkwatt said:Facial hair,shave and keep it clean. The only facial hair that can fly is a goatee.
Now the body? If you are hairy like a warewolf/caveman,shave, if not your good to go.
Some women really like a bit of stuble on a man. They love the rough look and the feeling of having a MAN kissing them upstairs or downstairs.
As of body hair, I have a hairy chest AND a hairy back. I dont shave but keep my body hair trimmed. I have NEVER had an issue with any women NOT liking it. They LOVE your hairy chest rubbing against their nipples and once you are banging the crap out of them, your hairy back is the last thing on their mind.
The trick is to keep your body hair under control, specially your pubic area, and either keep a clean shaven look or a very short stuble.
Dayum itz jee
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Hair Holds Funk.. So get rid of the hair get rid of the Funk!
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I get a lot of compliments on my facial hair from women.
Plus people say I look 12 years old with my facial hair shaven, so I'm keeping it regardless of what women think.
Plus people say I look 12 years old with my facial hair shaven, so I'm keeping it regardless of what women think.