"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Body Hair/Facial Hair

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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Facial hair,shave and keep it clean. The only facial hair that can fly is a goatee.

Now the body? If you are hairy like a warewolf/caveman,shave, if not your good to go.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fash

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blinkwatt said:
Facial hair,shave and keep it clean. The only facial hair that can fly is a goatee.

Now the body? If you are hairy like a warewolf/caveman,shave, if not your good to go.
I kinda disagree.

Some women really like a bit of stuble on a man. They love the rough look and the feeling of having a MAN kissing them upstairs or downstairs.

As of body hair, I have a hairy chest AND a hairy back. I dont shave but keep my body hair trimmed. I have NEVER had an issue with any women NOT liking it. They LOVE your hairy chest rubbing against their nipples and once you are banging the crap out of them, your hairy back is the last thing on their mind.

The trick is to keep your body hair under control, specially your pubic area, and either keep a clean shaven look or a very short stuble.
 

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I get a lot of compliments on my facial hair from women.

Plus people say I look 12 years old with my facial hair shaven, so I'm keeping it regardless of what women think.
 
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