Wasabi_Master
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I have chest hair and i got mixed responses from health websites about leaving it or shaving it off / wax. To the prospective of casual dating ofcourse.
any opinions?
any opinions?
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battle_sheep
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Just trim it man, no big deal, girls will appreciate it
You can get pretty much the same results from trimming with an electric buzzer as you would with a razor
You can get pretty much the same results from trimming with an electric buzzer as you would with a razor
Wasabi_Master
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doesnt it grow thicker?
what about wax?
what about wax?
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Lol dude I used an electric razor to shave my chest hair...no way it's as clean as with a real razor but it still is clean and neat looking.battle_sheep said:
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Shaving body hair is an INSTANT way to look leaner. I always shave everything before shows/stagettes... Of course girls kind of except us to look a certain way though. Plus I'm a hairy dude. I look like a member of the taliban when I don't shave my face for a couple of weeks!
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dont shave your legs, and it you dont have a bunch of hair on your arms then dont shave them, too much unneeded maintance for arms.
Stomach hair makes you look fatter.
I was worried i'd somehow gotten fat because i got lazy for a while about taking care of the chest hair. I shaved it all off and i was like oh i'm still the same.
The first time i shaved it off, i had no idea how in shape i'd gotten. I was shocked. It was the first time i could really see the musculature of my pecs and such. My hair hides my abs too.
Women ***** either way. If you have facial stubble they say you look good, but then they ***** when they kiss you. Your shaved chest hair is "itchy" to them, but they still like the look.
You can't win so do what you want.
I was worried i'd somehow gotten fat because i got lazy for a while about taking care of the chest hair. I shaved it all off and i was like oh i'm still the same.
The first time i shaved it off, i had no idea how in shape i'd gotten. I was shocked. It was the first time i could really see the musculature of my pecs and such. My hair hides my abs too.
Women ***** either way. If you have facial stubble they say you look good, but then they ***** when they kiss you. Your shaved chest hair is "itchy" to them, but they still like the look.
You can't win so do what you want.
Wasabi_Master
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I was thinking of waxing, because the hair wont grow as strong. Any suggestions?
Anything about hair growing back faster or thicker is a myth. A hair follicle is a hair follicle, it grows at the same speed and rate no matter what. As far as if you shoyld shave. A lot of girls like a chest hair, bt if it's on your back or shoulders, get out the clippers.
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Wasabi_Master
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Wont shaving it all off, make your muscles stand out more?
I always shave my chest, but that does cause my nipples to go hard for a few days. Anyone else have that issue? I am thinking it has something to do with the smoothness of the skin around the nipple area. I have been applying ample amounts of lotion over my chest before going out hoping that it would help with things. Still the same hard nipples though.
WhitePimp
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I urge you NOT to wax your chest. The pain is unbearable and the amount of in-growns and bleeding you get really kills any aesthetic effect. Just trim it down and it'll look fine.
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Wish I could shave it; whenever I do I get a bunch of ingrowns when it grows back and it's really sharp. Sucks having really thick hair (and by thick I mean in terms of the hair follicle, not the density of hair on my chest; damn Persian roots haha).
I just opt with trimming. Girls seem to dig a bit of chest hair, anyways.
I just opt with trimming. Girls seem to dig a bit of chest hair, anyways.
old married dude
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I pretty much shave everything with an electric trimmer.
Shaving makes you like quite a bit more defined/toned. It's a must for me being 1/2 Italian.
Shaving makes you like quite a bit more defined/toned. It's a must for me being 1/2 Italian.
truth. As someone who is part italian, I have to deal with a good amount of chest hair. I just shaved my chest it today and its amazing how much leaner/muscular I look even though nothing really changed since yesterday!Fuglydude said:
Not looking forward to the ingrowns though. Probably just going to go with what everyone else suggested and use an electric shaver. Any suggestions so it doesn't look like a total hack job?