Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Borgia

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Hey All

I just got my body fat measured today - i did two tests, the first was holding a machine and that measured 7.4% then he did by pinching my skin and that was 10.2%. I am confused about the big difference and also would like to know what i should strive for - what it really means!

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David
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kineti[C]harm

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If you ask me those friggin numbers mean nothing (except if you are overweight maybe). What you should care about is how your body looks.... You can see where you have fat and where you have muscles, go with that :p
 

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7.4% is rather unrealistic.

10.2% is still very good. You don't seem to have any body fat problems------> BULK UP!! :)

ThePanther
 

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I find body fat serves as a good way to measure how lean I am. I also agree that the mirror works best of course but associating a number with your body fat is always useful.

7.4% is not unrealistic, pre-contest I go down to about 4% bodyfat. When not competing I walk around at about 6-7%.
 

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Last time I checked mine, it was 8, has been 7, although that was on one of those electronic scales at home.
Its not unrealistic, your just fat :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reto

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I agree with the above. I try to stay away from #'s and focus on how I look.

Body fat %, how much you weigh, how much you lift...Just #'s...
 

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you have a low enough body fat when you take a picture in the dark and your abs still standout
 
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