"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vlf445

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I'm tall n skinny, n im not trying to bulk up huge or anything. I'd rather have a tall lean muscular look, something like ryan reynolds. To get that, I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process. I don't know if that is possible, so maybe ill have to do it in two phases if need be.

I'm planning on starting with mainly body weight routines mixed with some free weights for mass/density, while throwing HIIT cardio in the mix. I'm looking for some guidelines to follow, maybe even a bodyweight/freeweight routine, and some other good bodyfat cutting ideas.

I was looking at the cutting up guide, and thought this might be good, but I'm not looking to lose weight. Just lower my bodyfat %. Any tips for this would be great. Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vlf445 said:
I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process.
From what I've heard it is not possible to do both. It is be done by alternating weights and cardio in stages. e.g. 6 weeks weights, 4 weeks cardio. Then again if desired.

Your diet will be the most important factor in this.

You gain muscle mass first, with minimal cardio. You may gain some body fat during this stage, keep a close eye on that one. Most recommend around gaining 1 pound per week of muscle, any higher and your body fat could increase too quickly.

Eventually when the muscle mass is high enough lowering body fat percentage will be easier and can be also maintained more easily. Working on this stage will require lots of cardio, but make sure to still get a good diet plan - you don't wanna be burning off muscle. Eating just the right amount of carbs and protein to maintain muscle mass (the occasional loss of a pound or two is acceptable).

I'm sure some people of this board may go into more detail on this.
 

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vlf445 said:
I'm tall n skinny, n im not trying to bulk up huge or anything. I'd rather have a tall lean muscular look, something like ryan reynolds. To get that, I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process. I don't know if that is possible, so maybe ill have to do it in two phases if need be.

I'm planning on starting with mainly body weight routines mixed with some free weights for mass/density, while throwing HIIT cardio in the mix. I'm looking for some guidelines to follow, maybe even a bodyweight/freeweight routine, and some other good bodyfat cutting ideas.

I was looking at the cutting up guide, and thought this might be good, but I'm not looking to lose weight. Just lower my bodyfat %. Any tips for this would be great. Thanks
Post up a picture and I can give you detailed advice.
 

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it's hard to tell, but my guess would be in the 10-12% range.

you don't need to cut down weigth, on the coutrary.

to get the ryan reynolds look, you'd need to put on some serious muscle.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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