"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vlf445

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I'm tall n skinny, n im not trying to bulk up huge or anything. I'd rather have a tall lean muscular look, something like ryan reynolds. To get that, I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process. I don't know if that is possible, so maybe ill have to do it in two phases if need be.

I'm planning on starting with mainly body weight routines mixed with some free weights for mass/density, while throwing HIIT cardio in the mix. I'm looking for some guidelines to follow, maybe even a bodyweight/freeweight routine, and some other good bodyfat cutting ideas.

I was looking at the cutting up guide, and thought this might be good, but I'm not looking to lose weight. Just lower my bodyfat %. Any tips for this would be great. Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Duracell_Bunny

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vlf445 said:
I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process.
From what I've heard it is not possible to do both. It is be done by alternating weights and cardio in stages. e.g. 6 weeks weights, 4 weeks cardio. Then again if desired.

Your diet will be the most important factor in this.

You gain muscle mass first, with minimal cardio. You may gain some body fat during this stage, keep a close eye on that one. Most recommend around gaining 1 pound per week of muscle, any higher and your body fat could increase too quickly.

Eventually when the muscle mass is high enough lowering body fat percentage will be easier and can be also maintained more easily. Working on this stage will require lots of cardio, but make sure to still get a good diet plan - you don't wanna be burning off muscle. Eating just the right amount of carbs and protein to maintain muscle mass (the occasional loss of a pound or two is acceptable).

I'm sure some people of this board may go into more detail on this.
 

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vlf445 said:
I'm tall n skinny, n im not trying to bulk up huge or anything. I'd rather have a tall lean muscular look, something like ryan reynolds. To get that, I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process. I don't know if that is possible, so maybe ill have to do it in two phases if need be.

I'm planning on starting with mainly body weight routines mixed with some free weights for mass/density, while throwing HIIT cardio in the mix. I'm looking for some guidelines to follow, maybe even a bodyweight/freeweight routine, and some other good bodyfat cutting ideas.

I was looking at the cutting up guide, and thought this might be good, but I'm not looking to lose weight. Just lower my bodyfat %. Any tips for this would be great. Thanks
Post up a picture and I can give you detailed advice.
 

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it's hard to tell, but my guess would be in the 10-12% range.

you don't need to cut down weigth, on the coutrary.

to get the ryan reynolds look, you'd need to put on some serious muscle.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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