"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Blw Job Problem

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CoRVeTTe6699

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I have a problem when it comes to getting blwjobs.

Last year, a girl wanted to give me my first bj. Unfortunately i couldn't get it up. ( most likely because i consumed alcohol)...

Three nights ago, my girlfriend gave me my first b-job. I got it up, but i didn't come. She stopped after 5 minutes and she tried jerking me off too, but I didnt come then ethier. I can't give her "advice" on how to do it because what she is doing is fine.

One of my biggest fears was coming too soon. Then after the first catastrophe, I was left wondering if i would be able to get it up at all. Now it's worrying about if I am going to be able to get my nut off.

i am comfortable with this girl, and i am not gay. What the **** is wrong with me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The problem isn't necessarily you whacking too much, it might be a combination of things. Her style definately counts for something.

It takes me a much longer time to ejaculate with a bj than it does with sex.

It's not a big thing (pun not intended). Don't worry about it.
 
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It may be performance anxiety, which happens to a lot of guys. I always seem to get very tense whenever I'm with a new girl, which can lead to problems.

The solution is obviously to relax, but that's always easier said than done.
 
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i just read your post and i started to laff.. i had the same problem. i figure its the pressure of not busting too soon... when i recieved my first bj, i was determined not to bust in the first minute... then a minute turned into half an hour.. my broad was telling me to focus, she was obviously getting tired... so i reaized who gives an f if i bust in a minute, its only head, shes tryna give me the pleasure...

btw, i think heds too over rated.. the teeth get in the way... ouch!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah i hate those teeth... kills the moment and sets my busting clock on reset ... hahha

yeah dont worry about it dude i have something similar and i dont really care... means i can get head for longer fcuk for a heaps long period :D
 
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Originally posted by Nightspark
yeah i hate those teeth... kills the moment and sets my busting clock on reset ... hahha
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haha
no one likes the "rake"
 
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