"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ziro

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I blush way too much and I don't know why, even when someone just says my name. It's not really because I'm nervous, but it's just something I do. I just wanted to know if there's a way I can bring down my blushing or something because people who don't know me usually think I'm shy at first because I blush.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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penkitten

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blushing is sexy!
it could be worse you know, you could have some nervous tick on your face instead...
 

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Overactive blushing is a medical condition. I've heard of it actually being fixed through minor medical procedures. It's the same deal with over-sweating, say in palms, people think you'e nervous but it just happens whenever. Look for info on it on Google or something and you might find some way to fix it. But I'd say you should really research it before you start shelling out any major cash.

I'm no expert but I'd figure a tan would at least make the blushing less noticable. How you get the tan is up to you, but you might want to try those creams or sprays or whatever that give you an artificial tan.
 

DonJuanQuixote

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Originally posted by Rith
I'm no expert but I'd figure a tan would at least make the blushing less noticable. How you get the tan is up to you, but you might want to try those creams or sprays or whatever that give you an artificial tan.
What did YOU smoke?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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fatkins

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If you blush just cover it up by saying they have a booger in their nose.
 

dookie

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blushing isn't bad... some women even find it sexy. I have had a hard time controlling a hard-on at times. :p anybody have some suggestions???
 
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