"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blowned off?

CrizzleGA

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I was just wondering on how I should handle this situation.

A chick that I work with invited once the store closed to go out with her. I was like I dunno I am going to have to think about it... Once the store closed I approched her and got the number and agreed I would call her in like 20 mins for the directions. I called her twice never an answer... So im like **** it, then the next day she calls me but I dont answer(on purpose). Now when I see her at work should I even speak to her or what do I even say to her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apollo_Jordan

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act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
 

backbreaker

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Originally posted by Apollo_Jordan
act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
she's a flake... even if you could get with her, in the long run it wouldnt be worth it
 

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Dude things happen, any number of things could have happened, she'll give you an excuse and I say go with it. Look at this as making a new friend.
 

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If she was blowing you off she would not have called back. You should have answered the phone. Even if she's flaky you should be better than that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
Random, LoL:p

Seriously, U should'v answered the phone.
 
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