"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blowned off?

CrizzleGA

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I was just wondering on how I should handle this situation.

A chick that I work with invited once the store closed to go out with her. I was like I dunno I am going to have to think about it... Once the store closed I approched her and got the number and agreed I would call her in like 20 mins for the directions. I called her twice never an answer... So im like **** it, then the next day she calls me but I dont answer(on purpose). Now when I see her at work should I even speak to her or what do I even say to her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Apollo_Jordan

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act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
 

backbreaker

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Originally posted by Apollo_Jordan
act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
she's a flake... even if you could get with her, in the long run it wouldnt be worth it
 

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Dude things happen, any number of things could have happened, she'll give you an excuse and I say go with it. Look at this as making a new friend.
 

Shiftkey

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If she was blowing you off she would not have called back. You should have answered the phone. Even if she's flaky you should be better than that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
Random, LoL:p

Seriously, U should'v answered the phone.
 
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