"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blowned off?

CrizzleGA

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I was just wondering on how I should handle this situation.

A chick that I work with invited once the store closed to go out with her. I was like I dunno I am going to have to think about it... Once the store closed I approched her and got the number and agreed I would call her in like 20 mins for the directions. I called her twice never an answer... So im like **** it, then the next day she calls me but I dont answer(on purpose). Now when I see her at work should I even speak to her or what do I even say to her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
 

backbreaker

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Originally posted by Apollo_Jordan
act like nothing happened. Then be sure not to ask her to kick it.....did she leave you a message when she called? Doesnt seem to good regardless.
she's a flake... even if you could get with her, in the long run it wouldnt be worth it
 

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Dude things happen, any number of things could have happened, she'll give you an excuse and I say go with it. Look at this as making a new friend.
 

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If she was blowing you off she would not have called back. You should have answered the phone. Even if she's flaky you should be better than that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
if you use the term "blowned off" when someone leaves you hanging........ you might be a Redneck.


sorry dude, I couldn't resist.:crackup:
Random, LoL:p

Seriously, U should'v answered the phone.
 
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