"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blown-out Again; How do you keep rejection from phasing you?

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PHAT Rabbit said:
How do you do that? You figure out what you value. What are your values
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I don't know, intelligent (pretty well educated) worldly/cultured (I've traveled around the world many times) financially stable (I mean, I'm only in college and working part time, but I'm not neck-high in debt like a lot of kids my age and even older are).

It's so hard to convey all of that smoothly and quickly in an interaction with a girl, especially in a bar/club setting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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