Blown-out Again; How do you keep rejection from phasing you?

[Don'tWannabeAWannabe]

How do you do that? You figure out what you value. What are your values

I don't know, intelligent (pretty well educated) worldly/cultured (I've traveled around the world many times) financially stable (I mean, I'm only in college and working part time, but I'm not neck-high in debt like a lot of kids my age and even older are).

It's so hard to convey all of that smoothly and quickly in an interaction with a girl, especially in a bar/club setting.

 

[Proselytiser]

Wearing sunglasses inside at night-time has to be the clearest red-flag a girl can send before even opening her mouth