"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blown off and no answer...next move?

bagezmarnar

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So I've been seeing this girl for a while, ****ed her a couple times including last week.

We were supposed to hang out tonight...I talked to her earlier in the day, and then the night rolled through and I texted her to ask her what time to get her and no answer...tried again 3 more times then texted her are u ****ing serious, called her but no answer. Maybe she is seeing someone else. This isn't the first time she's blown me off but she's always let me know beforehand. This is the first time she has never answered me.

She WILL end up texting me, because I'm dropping all attention and contact period. Now, I'm trying to figure out my next move when she ends up trying to talk to me. I'm trying to turn the tables back in my favor and have her begging to see me.

What option should I go with?
a. Don't answer ever again
b. Straight up tell her that "whatever other guy she is getting with can have her and phuck off" (she most likely isn't getting with someone else but it could spin her hamster wheel)
c. Act like nothing happened, indifferent and make her work for me
d. Call her out on blowing me off
e. Start being the world's biggest d*ck

thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cremasta

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Don't try to contact her again. If she does get in contact with you, demote her to fvckbuddy status and don't spend another cent on her.

Don't take any excuses like "my phone ran out of battery", there are other phones.
 
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bagezmarnar said:
...tried again 3 more times then texted her are u ****ing serious, called her but no answer. Maybe she is seeing someone else.
It has been scientifically proven that there is a negative correlation between texts sent and responses rate.

Don't ever do this again. If she hasn't lost attraction, she has now. The only next move is to never contact her again (even if she contacts you) to destroy the weak insecure beta within.
 
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VladPatton

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F) Drop her ass due to massive disrespect.

Not cool. Play it very, very low and reduce your interest to less than what she's giving you.

Nothing more you can do, someone else must be grabbing her attention. Yes, something bad could of happened and she went AWOL for a day or so, but most likely, she riding another beef stick.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yep. I'd delete her number. If she comes back. F buddy terms only. If not. Move on. These chicks are doing the same chit on the regular.
 
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