"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Blowing her off nicely....

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October

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Alright...I'm a junior right now and a senior asked me to her prom. I said yes. The problem is, I barely know this girl at all, but she's in a few of my classes. She's a HB6 at best, I've talked to her a few times, and it always fizzled out ot nothing in about 2 minutes. I don't think it would be a good idea to go with her because it wouldn't be fun for either of us and I can't imagine dancing with her, but I can't think of how to tell her I can't go. I have a track meet on that day at about 1:30, but is that a valid excuse? Any suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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dude you could say,"unless you want to show up late,cause i have track meet all day,i could go with you cause i need time to pick up my tux and ish,so we would show up hella late"or you can just lie
 
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Just say that there's no telling how long the track meet will go and you don't want her to be late for the prom. Then when she tries to counter it tell her that you're always tired as hell after the meets and wouldn't feel like doing anything. If she's not a complete dumbass then she should get the hint.
 
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The Master Disaster

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All you have to say is this:
"My squad got called up to go to Iraq I'm shipping out tommorrow."
Valid Excuse. Problem solved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr. Debonaire

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saying yes.... you fukked up

you should have said no right away, now its going to be really hard to change your stance

just go, have fun, who cares?
 
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