"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blowing her off nicely....

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October

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Alright...I'm a junior right now and a senior asked me to her prom. I said yes. The problem is, I barely know this girl at all, but she's in a few of my classes. She's a HB6 at best, I've talked to her a few times, and it always fizzled out ot nothing in about 2 minutes. I don't think it would be a good idea to go with her because it wouldn't be fun for either of us and I can't imagine dancing with her, but I can't think of how to tell her I can't go. I have a track meet on that day at about 1:30, but is that a valid excuse? Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt

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dude you could say,"unless you want to show up late,cause i have track meet all day,i could go with you cause i need time to pick up my tux and ish,so we would show up hella late"or you can just lie
 
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eggnawgkid

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Just say that there's no telling how long the track meet will go and you don't want her to be late for the prom. Then when she tries to counter it tell her that you're always tired as hell after the meets and wouldn't feel like doing anything. If she's not a complete dumbass then she should get the hint.
 
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The Master Disaster

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All you have to say is this:
"My squad got called up to go to Iraq I'm shipping out tommorrow."
Valid Excuse. Problem solved.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr. Debonaire

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saying yes.... you fukked up

you should have said no right away, now its going to be really hard to change your stance

just go, have fun, who cares?
 
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