Bloody boring

[evolvingnerd]

well there;s this girl i met wo happens to be in 3 of my 5 classes, and we pretty much sit together all the time - she doesn't know anyone there, and on my DJ pick ups i met her

now i have no interest in her at all
she's boring as shyte, and hardly ever talks, yet always sits next to me when she sees me, no matter how much i shift around the lecture theatre

anyhoo, at the start it was kinda nice, and she was marginally talkative, but now.....O ....... M ..... G

now im pretty sure i'm not the problem, at least not entirely. but the thing is, i'm thinking it's as though we spend too much time together....the other chicks i talk to, always light up when they're around me, but these girls i only see maybe twice a week

what can i do? even though she's sweet and cute, i'm stuck with ehr for another like 6 weeks....what are some things i can do to liven things up?
i do'nt have too many friends in these classes we're in, and it seems as though on my outings with the ladies, i've been indirectly kicked out of the nerd clicks i used to be apart of

please help....

 

[xhikari]

hmm try askin her for sex
she might run away
LOL

 

[evolvingnerd]

LOL
she definitley would
she's the shy type....international student from argentina i believe

 

[xhikari]

shy type??
more dangerous
u will never know she will just tie u up to the bed and whip u and etc......
HAHHAHAAH

 

[evolvingnerd]

well has anyone got any useful advice?
i forgot to mention that even though she is a bit of a tool, she is pretty good social proof
i've definitley noticed an increase in visual attention from other girls

this argetnian chick is quite pretty....

 

[mistyc]

Make a decision. And follow through like the man you are.

now THAT's advice

 

[NewMan]

What are YOU doing to get her out of her shell?

Work her like the DJ you are for goodness sake. It shouldn't be dull and boring around you. You make it fun - not her.

Now go do it.

 

[evolvingnerd]

bvut how do i go abotu getting her out of her shell/

i've read it constantly how once u DJs break em out of her shell, she's like putty in ur hands, or something to that effect

but wtf does it mean?
how do you go about doing it?
details please

 

[NewMan]

Your post is confusing.

Do you want to just get rid of her or do you want to liven her up?

Don't expet not to do any work if you want to liven her up.

What are you doing? How do you interact with her?

If you onlt see her in class don't expect her to be going crazy.

You'll need to work on her outside of class....

It's not like your going to flip a switch.

She's probably the kind of girl whoose going to play off of you. Your going ot have to leed and she will follow.

 

[prototype]

The only way to make someone open up is attacking them with questions ( not that close-ended shait). they always give in. do not forget to compliment their ideas. try to be or seem sincere.

 

[evolvingnerd]

any other ideas?
when i'm with her, and in class, we're pretty silent, just writing down notes and stuff - most ppl are anyways
but then even afterwards, it's usually the same mundane questions...whatcha got now...egh - getting sick of it

i wanna have a normal friendship with her
any other friendsi'm with, we;re always joking around and talking - just this stupid biatch is getting to me

 

[NewMan]

If you've tried joking around with her - then perhaps it's a case of her havinf zero personality.

Come on to her. Try and bag her. She'll leave you alone after that.

 

[DJ_Dork]

brag brag brag.

 

[evolvingnerd]

i'm starting to think she's a fvcking loser
i've been sitting next to me good friends nowadays - afterall, it's all about MY amusement

and she just sits on her own

fvck her, i'll just live it through and avoid her without making it seem too obvious

cheers fellas