"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blondes just hate me?

alphamailman

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That's what it seems like. When I'm out in public places or at school they always give me a quick glance and then ignore me and never are receptive to any conversations. Either way they've always been my last preference, after brunettes and then redheads, which usually are the ones who show me interest and even make it obvious/easy at times. I do have brown hair myself and as of lately I've grown out my beard which is...red?:crazy: Oh and when a blonde does dig me, it's usually dyed so not genuine.

Anyone else have this happen to them, maybe another hair color? Just curious
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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most blondes are not natural........are we talking just women or men with blonde hair also.

You could dye your hair blonde and see if your image in your mirror tries to avoid you...then you will know once and for all.

DUDE...........its not the hair color............its something your NOT doing.

INTERESTING TIDBIT-on the net a chic with blonde hair is the equivelant of having a University degree as far as popularity/success goes. Not that I have ever uttered the words.........OH MY GOD THAT CHIC IS SO FRICKEN INTELLIGENT.
 
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